Through an exploration of your familial “blueprint”, we learn where these patterns came from. I help you to see how what you learned in your upbringing has influenced your choices in partners, who you’re drawn to, and why the “same kind of person” (emotionally unavailable) is usually drawn to you.
We revamp your relationship with yourself and look at how you are living your life outside the dating realm. We help you to develop a sense of self that is not abandoned when you start to date someone. We look at the “red flags” that are consistently waved in your face but that you tend to ignore - they may feel like “green flags”.
We get clarity around your values, needs, and what you want a relationship to look like. We create a dating plan so you have guidance and direction. You’ll learn how to stay connected to your authentic self while dating and in early relationship. If you are interested in learning more about working together, please email and request a 20 minute consult call.
Julia Werman Zwerin, LCSW
Psychotherapist